Earl Nightingale · 1956
The Strangest Secret
In 1956, the American radio broadcaster Earl Nightingale recorded a short spoken message about success. It became one of the best-loved recordings of its kind, and it deeply shaped Bob Proctor, who later worked alongside Nightingale and went on to co-found the Proctor Gallagher Institute, home of Thinking Into Results.
Here are its key ideas, in our own words, with the simple 30-day practice at its heart. To hear the original, visit its publisher, Nightingale-Conant.
The problem
Most of us simply don’t think
Nightingale opens with a story. When a journalist asked Albert Schweitzer what was wrong with people, the great doctor paused, then answered that people simply don’t think.
Imagine a hundred people setting out at twenty-five, each sure they will succeed. Decades later, Nightingale observed, only a handful have truly done so. Not for lack of talent, but because most of us drift, doing what everyone else does without asking where it leads.
He borrowed a striking idea from the psychologist Rollo May: the opposite of courage is not cowardice, but conformity.
A new definition
What success really is
For Nightingale, success has little to do with money or fame. It is the steady, step-by-step realisation of a worthy ideal: knowing where you are going, and moving towards it on purpose.
The teacher who teaches because she chose to, the parent raising a family with love, the shopkeeper who wanted their own shop and runs it well: each is a success, because each is deliberately becoming what they decided to become.
That phrase, a worthy ideal, sits at the very heart of Thinking Into Results. Read more in Choosing a Worthy Ideal.
Goals
A ship with a destination
Picture a ship leaving harbour with its whole voyage charted: the captain and crew know exactly where it is going, and almost always it arrives.
Now picture the same ship with no captain, no chart and no destination, its engines simply started. If it leaves the harbour at all, it drifts until it runs aground.
People are no different. A clear, chosen goal is the difference between a voyage and a drift.
The secret
“We become what we think about.”
This is the strangest secret: strange because it has been taught for thousands of years, and a secret because so few people live by it.
Nightingale shows how wise voices have agreed on this one point: Marcus Aurelius, who taught that our life is shaped by our thoughts; Emerson; William James, who saw that changing our attitudes can change our lives; Shakespeare, who wrote that “our doubts are traitors”; and the Gospel of Mark: “all things are possible to him that believeth.”
The first Hermetic principle says the same: the All is Mind. See Mentalism, and the Stoics’ inner citadel.
A parable
The mind is fertile ground
A farmer plants two seeds in good soil: one of corn, one of deadly nightshade. He waters and tends them both. The land does not choose; it returns whatever is planted, poison as generously as grain.
The mind, Nightingale says, is far richer than any field, and it works the same way. Plant a clear, worthwhile goal and tend it, and it grows. Plant worry, confusion and fear, and those grow too.
This is Cause and Effect, the sixth Hermetic principle, at work in the garden of the mind. As you sow, so shall you reap.
What it asks of us
The price of the good life
- Guard your thinking. Understand, heart and mind, that you become what you think about.
- Let your imagination soar. Most limits are self-imposed.
- Find your courage. Hold your goal in mind every day, and refuse to believe any circumstance can defeat it.
- Save a tenth of what you earn.
- Act. Ideas only matter once we move on them.
The practice
The 30-day test
- Write your one clear goal on a card. On the back, write: Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you.
- Carry it. Read it on waking, through the day, and before sleep.
- When fear or doubt appears, gently replace it with your goal.
- Give more than you take, in your work and your relationships.
- Don’t worry about how. Know where you are going.
- Act as though it were impossible to fail.
- If you slip, begin again. Persistence is simply faith in action.
The law of service
Give first
Nightingale reminds us that what we receive in life will always match the service we give. Money is not the cause of success; it is the result of it, and success grows from the value we bring to others.
He likens the opposite approach to sitting before a cold stove and asking it for heat before adding any wood.
Thinking Into Results returns to this in its lesson on leaving everyone with the impression of increase. And it is the Hermetic principle of Cause and Effect once more: give, and it is given back.
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